Don't Stop Dating...

A few months ago, I decided that I need to actively pursue to start dating my husband all over again.  Over the years we've made time for ourselves here and there but I knew it was a good time to make us a priority.  

There was nothing major going on in in our lives other than the day to day - kids - work - home things.  But after 17 years of marriage and now having children who were old enough to care for themselves for a few hours, I took the opportunity to plan a date-a-week with him. 

I recently scheduled the next few months worth and have them on both his and my calendars. Planed and ready.  

Last night, my son said to us "Why do you need to go on a date." (yes, a teachable moment.)   

We explained how it's important to keep your relationship a priority and how we enjoy spending time with each other.  

I have planned dates that cost very little money ... like a fire and wine in the backyard - to dates that are a little more expensive... dinner and dancing.  But its all worth it.  I have found that when we are actively pursuing each other we are less stressed, better connected and overall enjoying life more.  

So my challenge today is to date your spouse as often as you can.